Comments on: Here’s A Quick Way To Live Your Life Purpose

By: CK Reyes

CK Reyes — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 16:26:31 +0000

Corinne, one other thing, if you are projecting your anger onto others, then that is yours. For example, “Look at how angry that person is.” Then look at what angry people are to you? Are the bad or wrong? Or are they unlovable?

By: CK Reyes

CK Reyes — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 01:44:57 +0000

Corinne,

The anger you feel toward something is not toward yourself. It is the judgment that you have on the other person that is the projection.

So look at the qualities you judge in others.

What are they?

Let’s say you get angry that the person you are judging is immature. Look at how you have exhibited that quality of immature. Either now or in the past… Or a situation that you could exhibit that quality.

A really easy way to determine if you are projecting a quality onto another person is whether or not you are informed by it or affected by it. If you have not emotional reaction then you are simply informed, “Oh that person is immature.” However, if you are affected by it and possibly angry by their immaturity, then you are in projection.

Dow this help explain it? I will definitely be talking more on this topic.

By: Corinne Edwards

Corinne Edwards — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 22:14:54 +0000

I am reading your article more carefully.

So – the anger I may feel toward someone else could be a projection of the anger toward myself? Or guilt of my own?

This whole shadow theory is not something I am too familiar with – except from you.

I will look forward to more, CK.

You certainly make people think.

By: MichelleVandepas

MichelleVandepas — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 14:30:03 +0000

CK, When someone tried to get me to do something, because I’d be good at it, or should, it is usually a projection. So when someone says, You should try that new art studio, I wonder if they want to. So, when I’m giving advice. its usually the same. The anger comes out in strange ways. Still figuring that one out.

By: Corinne Edwards

Corinne Edwards — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 00:31:59 +0000

The dark side is important to keep in the background – alive and well – in case you need it.

If a credit card raises your interest rate – your internet service goes up -
or in a case like yours where you have to warn someone to get lost.

Nicey nicey is nice. Would be great if everyone was like that.

Then, we could let go of our reserves!

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