3 Steps On How To Live Your Divine Purpose More Fully!

Steps to your divine purpose

Do you always put others first? Their requests, their needs, their agendas, their dreams? Do you say yes, when in your heart you mean no? At the end of the day do you feel drained of your energy and resentful that the things you wanted to do for yourself didn’t get done? Do you feel angry that you aren’t living your dream?

What would it take for you to live your dreams? What would it take for you to be on fire with passion for your life?

Step 1: Put yourself first. Meet your selfish self. Decide, right now, that nothing will stop you from living your best life.

When we push away this shadow side of our humanity, we become resentful. We want to be selfish, but we are taught very early in our lives that selfish is bad. You have met those selfish people, right? You know who I am talking about. Those people who don’t care about anyone but themselves. My guess is those people really don’t care about themselves at all and this is their shadow surfacing in the outer world. This is unconscious selfish.

I suggest that we be consciously selfish. Identify your dream. Identify the elements of your life that make it worth living. Give yourself your dream. Give yourself what you need to live a happy and purposeful life. Do you need a walk everyday? A weekly massage? Maybe you are taking care of other people, but that is part of your dream. I have been around people who are consciously selfish. I like them. (I am one of them, but I haven’t always been.) These people have clear boundaries–with themselves and others. They (I mean we) say things like: I need my computer now. We say things like: no.

Step 2: Write a plan to get you from where you are to where you want to be.

Lay it out for yourself. Be very clear. Where do you want to be in a year from now? What, exactly, do you need to do to make it happen? Identify the thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors that might sabotage your plan. You know what they are–be honest with yourself.

Step 3: Take consistent action toward manifesting your dream.

Once you identify the steps that naturally lead you toward the life you want to live. Take consistent action toward your goal. Block out time on your calendar. Say no to choices that take you away from your dream. Get support! Check in with your plan when making choices instead of your emotions in the moment and continue the steady movement toward living your Divine Purpose more fully.

What other steps can you think of? We welcome comments below.

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